As you grow theres a lot you learn... yeah learning is 1000 times easy than unlearning... and as an adult its a nightmare to unlearn. never mind.
so far i have experience lots of lessons - couldnt find a substitute right now-
so just pinning down a few.
Your life is basically a package of Family, Friends and You. What choices you make.. decisions you take..
1. A big part of letting go is recognizing when it is time to stay in a situation and when it is time to move on - Darren L. Johnson
thats what i learnt a hard way... im sure i have company in this. but its a lesson worth learning.
Letting GO can really be a liberating experience. Really
2. Test Everything You have:
Muhammad ali said Friendship... is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.
i agree. not coz he is my idol but coz i feel its somewhere right. Friends when i say means the closest circle of the people you close to apart from family... lots of people will say hey Ur my best friend and so on... not that its wrong... but its always good to TEST what ever you get. Especially for people like me who have a bad sense on character. So i test anything and everything. PEOPLE as well. Most of them failed :( but im happy they failed. at least they dont clutter my life... they stay at a distance and its a good relation from far... its a calculated rick basically.
I have been there for people who needed me... but I havent been extremely lucky with friends tho.. coz i feel i just cant make that close friends...